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Thursday, October 29, 2009

question and answer...

I really need a theme song for these posts...but alas, I do not have one. So all I will say is it's, 'The Book of Questions' post time! It has been awhile since I have cranked one of these babies out so...if you are new to the blog and have no idea what I am talking about go here, and then go here, here, and finally here. After all of that clicking you should be all caught up...

Here we go...please drumroll to yourself while I flip through the book...

Question #207: Do you enjoy sleeping in physical contact with your lover?

Answer: First of all...I prefer to say 'lov-ah' instead of lover...it just sounds way more awesome. Second of all (ok that just sounds odd) I am currently 'lov-ah'-less (unless you count the naked window stalking date I have later tonight with the boys from the mormon bachelor pad). To be 100% honest my answer to the question is, heck no!

Sorry...I am a crazy sleeper who flips and flops and kicks and moves around constantly...if anyone else is in the bed with me they are completely risking their lives. I also have the issue on the very few occassions where I have shared my bed to not be able to sleep because wherever the other person is laying is EXACTLY where I want to be...therefore they are so in my way. Also, please do not be scandalized because in my 24 years I have only shared my bed with ONE boy ...thankyouverymuch!

I am also not a big cuddler when I am trying to get my Z's on. I need my space and hands off...sorry it's just the way I roll. You know...because I am gangster and all.

see this bed? Yeah...it isn't mine...but if it were it would be a 'no cuddle while sleeping' zone.

Okay 'fess up...are you a cuddler? Or are you a solo sleeper? Do tell...inquiring minds want to know!

10 comments:

Amy said...

I am the kinda person that doesn't like to be touched. If a friend touches my arm or hand, I get all mad. I don't know why. I don't like hugs either. But with Boyfriend, I am a total cuddler. I barely even hug my mom for cryin out loud. But with him, I can't keep my hands off of him (TMI). I have never slept in a bed with him, but we've taken naps on the couch n stuff. I like it :)

This is a fun idea for a post- picking a random question and answering it. I think every thursday that you do this, you should invite other bloggers to answer the question in a post on their own blog and then link it back to yours! Or do people already do that? I'm not sure. You could call it: Q&A Thursday! I would so participate :)

Alexandria said...

I am with you Amy...I am so not a touchy feely person! And there is NO such thing as TMI on this blog!

Oooh you are a blogging genius...however I am a blogging moron! How would I ask other bloggers to participate? I am confused...lol

Allison said...

Hm... Wow. I've never had a boyfriend. But I'm definitely a touchy feely person. So I'd have to say, I'd like cuddling. Also, I just like the warmth and feel of other people... hope that doesn't sound weird! :D

Oh yes. i can't wait for your date. :D

MoreThanMyOwnLife said...

Now I am a cuddler. Seriously, love me some cuddle time. With Vito, with my niece, with anyone who will love me enough to get that close (and I love enough to get that close because don't get me wrong, I have a personal space bubble and people I don't know well enough better stay on the outside). Now that being said, while sleeping they better stay off of me. I get hot when I sleep. Really hot. To the point where I have a fan on in the middle of winter and I sleep with 1 blanket hot. Boys have too much body heat and I can't sleep like that. Plus I need to fall asleep on my back, not exactly the best position to cuddle while sleeping.

Long answer short, cuddle, kiss goodnight, roll over to our respective sides of the bed. 8)

northstatemortgage said...

I totally agree with the comment above, right down to the super hot when I sleep too! I'm a cuddler for sure..not so much when it comes to bed time though! (unless it's with my little dog lulu, cus she's not a hot bod) So....
Cuddle - Yes
Bedtime Cuddle - No!

lynninlove said...

Fun question, Alexandria. and cute blog. I am the same way as these girls, I am a TOTAL cuddler. Love it, can't get enough. But sleeping? When we first get to bed, we always hold hands for like 30 sec. and then there is this moment when we don't want to hurt each other feelings, but we let go and totally flop onto the opposite sides of the bed so there is NO touching. I need my space, yo.

Nat said...

OK seriously this topic made me laugh. I have never been a touchy person, but silly me....i thought that would change when i got married. nuh-uh. it took me three nights before i reqested to my new hubby that we should not touch when we sleep. we both sleep hot....like we are a personal space heater (hello jacob black!)...and we just pretty much burn each other when we sleep. yeah i know. pretty sad. maybe we have super human torch powers! so no. so snuggling when sleeping. thank goodness for our king bed!

Living In Your Letters said...

So I went back and read the old ones you referenced in addition to this one...love the idea. And I love how you write your responses! It's like I'm standing right there and just asked the question to your face. :)
I like to cuddle until I'm just about asleep, and then roll over...I guess I'm both!

Alexandria said...

I am loving all of your comments! You ladies are all awesome!

Even though all of you are a bunch of 'snugglers' I still heart you all! Although I think it is pretty clear that no one likes to cuddle while trying to sleep! Take note boys!

Ivy said...

Cuddle me and love on me when we go to bed but sleep not touching too much. I can't sleep if my husband is holding me... I can rest and watch movies but not sleep. He's the same and he is always 'hot' and doesn't want to touch while sleeping.
Cheers